We all have different personas; the child, the warrior, the sage etc.
These are personas that have unconsciously developed, and also that we have consciously developed, in ourselves.
The question is, who is running your show?
When you’re under pressure, when you’re under stress, when the shit hits the fan, who takes control?
Too often I see the child taking control. The child is scared, the child is defensive, the child is petulant. The child is rarely the best persona to be in charge, when you’re an adult.
So another question, who would you like to take control?
And an even better question, what needs to happen for that persona to take control?
Sometimes, I don’t have anything to add.
Recently I was watching a video of our Prime Minister, Jacinda Adern, speaking about women’s suffrage.
Have you ever seen someone driving a car you want, running a business you want, in a relationship you want, ***insert any reason in here*** and been jealous of them and wished you had that?
This past year has been tough in many ways.
When you know, you know.
“Never give up,” I’m sure you’ve heard that.
You’ve got two options..
“You’ll pay more, but you’ll get more than you paid for.”
How often do you hear the statement, ‘there just aren’t enough hours in the day”?
This is the first blog I’ve written since my cousin Matthew was killed flying a helicopter a few weeks ago.