And as it turns out, so do people.
If you want something in your life, like a relationship or a business, then you have a vacuum, a space that wants to be filled.
The quality of what fills it is directly proportional to how comfortable you are sitting in that vacuum, how comfortable you are living with conditions you don’t want.
Do you leap into bed with the first person who so much as glances your way?
Do you pull the trigger on the first business opportunity that crosses your path?
Or do you sit still, in the vacuum, in discomfort, without that thing that you want?
Waiting.
Preparing.
For what’s right.
For what you deserve.
This is the first blog I’ve written since my cousin Matthew was killed flying a helicopter a few weeks ago.
We place labels on things – situations, relationships, roles – that state ‘this is this therefore this is not that.’