And as it turns out, so do people.
If you want something in your life, like a relationship or a business, then you have a vacuum, a space that wants to be filled.
The quality of what fills it is directly proportional to how comfortable you are sitting in that vacuum, how comfortable you are living with conditions you don’t want.
Do you leap into bed with the first person who so much as glances your way?
Do you pull the trigger on the first business opportunity that crosses your path?
Or do you sit still, in the vacuum, in discomfort, without that thing that you want?
Waiting.
Preparing.
For what’s right.
For what you deserve.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not one of these people who loves failure.
Challenges are a daily phenomenon for the entrepreneur.
If you want to do anything extraordinary, it’s likely that you’re going to need to break some rules.
Recently I was watching a video of our Prime Minister, Jacinda Adern, speaking about women’s suffrage.