Do you ever not do something you want to for fear of being judged?
Most of us do.
But what is judgement?
Judgement is actually our own perception that others are looking negatively upon us.
It’s not what others actually think.
What others think has no power over us.
Our own perception is the only thing that has power over us.
Which means judgement is a self-imposed limitation.
Which means we don’t need to live with it.
A while ago I encouraged my daughter Zara not to listen to a friend who wanted her to do something that she didn’t feel good about.
When we focus on a past that we don’t like, we are living in a state where we are hoping an imaginary future will heal a non-existent past.
Recently I was in a situation that wasn’t what I wanted, but there wasn’t anything I could do to change it.
If you fill up every area of your life with little regard for the quality of what you’re filling it with, there’s not much room left.
The thought of hard decisions is often worse than the consequences.
I’m in my office at the moment. This morning I’ve planned next week, had multiple meetings and worked on some strategic moves for my business.