Recently I’ve been dealing with someone who just won’t commit to a decision. At last I said to them, “time to shit or get off the pot.”
Limbo is a dangerous place, a place where energy is expended achieving nothing, a place where you kid yourself that you are making progress because you are ‘making a good decision’, but in fact you a just taking up space.
We delay decisions mainly out of fear; either fear of missing out, or fear of doing the wrong thing.
I believe the best decision is the right one, the second best is the wrong one, and the worst decision is no decision at all, essentially sitting on the ‘pot’ doing nothing.
Sometimes, I don’t have anything to add.
Recently I was watching a video of our Prime Minister, Jacinda Adern, speaking about women’s suffrage.
Have you ever seen someone driving a car you want, running a business you want, in a relationship you want, ***insert any reason in here*** and been jealous of them and wished you had that?
This past year has been tough in many ways.
When you know, you know.
“Never give up,” I’m sure you’ve heard that.
You’ve got two options..
“You’ll pay more, but you’ll get more than you paid for.”
How often do you hear the statement, ‘there just aren’t enough hours in the day”?
This is the first blog I’ve written since my cousin Matthew was killed flying a helicopter a few weeks ago.