There are two ways to find the limit.
Push it until you go over the limit, then step back a bit.
Or, learn where the limit is from others then step forward to it.
The consequences of failure determine which method is appropriate in any given situation.
For example, if you’re driving a fast car, the consequences of going over the limit can be very severe. But if you’re learning to ride a bike the consequences are simply a grazed knee.
Sometimes you need to go over the edge, but not always.
A while ago I encouraged my daughter Zara not to listen to a friend who wanted her to do something that she didn’t feel good about.
When we focus on a past that we don’t like, we are living in a state where we are hoping an imaginary future will heal a non-existent past.
Recently I was in a situation that wasn’t what I wanted, but there wasn’t anything I could do to change it.
If you fill up every area of your life with little regard for the quality of what you’re filling it with, there’s not much room left.
The thought of hard decisions is often worse than the consequences.
I’m in my office at the moment. This morning I’ve planned next week, had multiple meetings and worked on some strategic moves for my business.