Almost everyone I know who has achieved greatness in something, be that business, sports, the arts, they all began their journey to escape something.
Generally, it’s a feeling of not feeling enough.
But instead of letting this insecurity break them, they use it as a fuel to drive them.
We do more to avoid pain than to gain pleasure, so a driver to avoid pain is more likely to get you moving than a driver to gain something you want.
Essentially, insecurity is often what it takes to gain traction.
However, insecurity also has its dark side too.
In my experience, ‘successful’ people who remain driven by insecurity end up miserable, sad, isolated.
So maybe the key to success is to accept insecurity as a driver early on, to use it to fuel us, but to remain aware of when that story has run its course, then to change gears.
Feeling good in yourself is what it takes to sustain momentum and to be happy.
Perhaps we need both the dark and the light.
A while ago I encouraged my daughter Zara not to listen to a friend who wanted her to do something that she didn’t feel good about.
When we focus on a past that we don’t like, we are living in a state where we are hoping an imaginary future will heal a non-existent past.
Recently I was in a situation that wasn’t what I wanted, but there wasn’t anything I could do to change it.
Is it to never stop believing?
If you fill up every area of your life with little regard for the quality of what you’re filling it with, there’s not much room left.
“Fortune favours the bold.”
“Look before you leap.”
So, which one is it???
We all make them.
The thought of hard decisions is often worse than the consequences.
Some people bring magic into your life.
I’m in my office at the moment. This morning I’ve planned next week, had multiple meetings and worked on some strategic moves for my business.