“Dress for the job you want,” is something we’ve all heard. Essentially, it’s saying act as if you have what you want, and you’ll get it.

We can’t control the outcome.

Things just seem to work out well for some people.

And for others, things never seem to work out.

We need both.

After Claire and I separated she encouraged me to do some inner work because there were parts of me that weren’t constructive.