All that matters is who you are on the inside? Isn’t it? This blog is going to sound a bit mean. Just letting you know that now.
‘All that matters is who you are on the inside’ is the catch cry of the unsuccessful, the lazy, the people who have given up on their dreams and are living lives of massive compromise.
If the results in your life aren’t what you want, it’s much nicer to say ‘they don’t matter, who I am on the inside is what matters’, rather than being honest that things aren’t where you want them to be.
That way you can still create an identity of success even though all evidence is to the contrary.
Who you are on the inside does matter, but only to the extent that it impacts what you do on the outside and therefore the results you get in your life. And that’s exciting, because what you do is 100% your choice.
Sam Hazledine, author Unfair Fight